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    A helpful way of educating virtue is to focus on various virtues as a family or as a class.  A simple practice is to look at a different virtue each month and think of things that involve that virtue.  Parents and teachers can help children to define a virtue and then think of different tasks or operations that build that virtue.  For example. we start with Orderliness because many tasks beginning a school year involve order: getting supplies and books related to various subjects, maintaining a desk or locker, seating assignments, class hours, behavior on campus, homework assignments, talking when called upon, the instructions for completing assignments or putting information on a paper etc.  

Of course there are many tasks in the home as well, getting clothes in order before school, arranging the book back for the class schedule, straightening one's room, getting homework done before one goes out to recreate, eating a snack before one begins to study etc.

Simple conversations about the virtue and what actions would be consistent with the virtue and which would not are always helpful and not that difficult to bring about.  If you don't have any ideas, rent a video of one of Jane Austin's stories.  They possess the best examples of such discussions we might find.  If one thinks the discussion is erudite, remember who she was writing for.

 

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October

1.      ORDERLINESS -- An orderly person follows a logical procedure which is essential for the achievement of any goal set for oneself - in organizing things, using time, carrying out activities on one’s own initiative, without constant reminder.

November

  1. SOCIABILITY -- The sociable person makes good use of and discovers ways of getting together with different people; manages to communicate with them through the genuine interest shown in them, in what they say, in what they do, in what they think and feel.

December

  1. RESPECT FOR OTHERS -- A person who has respect for others acts or refrains from acting so as not to harm, and indeed so as to benefit, oneself and others, according to their rights, status and circumstances.

  January

  1. INDUSTRIOUSNESS -- An industrious person does diligently those things especially essential to the achievement of supernatural and natural maturity, and helps others to do the same, in everyday work and in the fulfillment of one's other duties.

  February

  1. RESPONSIBILITY -- A responsible person accepts the consequences of personal actions, be they intentional (resulting from decisions taken or accepted) or unintentional, so that others either benefit as much as possible or, at least, do not suffer.  Such a person is also concerned that others should act similarly.

  March

  1. PERSEVERANCE -- Once a decision is made, a persevering person takes the steps necessary to achieve the goal that has been set, in spite of internal or external difficulties, and despite anything which might weaken one’s resolve in the course of time.

  April

  1. MODESTY -- A modest person recognizes the value of personal privacy and respects that of others.  One’s own privacy is protected from the gaze of others; while rejecting anything which might encroach upon it and relaxes this practice only in circumstances which can be of benefit to self or others.

  May

  1. FRIENDSHIP -- Through friendship a person who already knows certain other people through shared interests in work or leisure has regular personal contact with them which stems from mutual rapport - each interested in the other person and in his or her improvement
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